

"You're not, by any chance, betraying your secret identity just to impress, um, cute boys, are you?" -- Giles
Dialogue in Buffy is obviously related to Wilcox when she states "it is directly related to symbolic social monsters". These symbolic monsters represent adulthood, and Buffy, her mother, and Giles interact in a role-reversed manner which demonstrates the illusion of adolescence. However, never having watched Buffy before, I did not realize the teenager/parent relationship is directly related through their interactions.
Buffy and her mother are on completely different pages. Her mother tries to be encouraging, but is blatantly representative of a naive, helpless child. For example, Buffy switches schools because she had burned down the school and her mother does not seem to mind even though she had to find a new job, house, and school for her child. She simply blames it on her daughter falling in with the wrong crowd. Her mother is clearly in denial. Meanwhile, Buffy (the teenager) represents the responsible, brave, adult-like figure. She is the one who battles to save their existence, and always seems to end up doing the right/moral/responsible thing. This role-reversed relationship, as Wilcox states, creates a symbolic need to bridge the generational gap between parents and teenagers.
One adult character that does bridge the generation gap is Giles because he is claimed to be the "ideal parent". However, I do not believe that he bridges the gap because he is representative of the ideal parent, but because he is the only adult (in the episodes we have watched) who comprehends the Vampire situation. As an adult he fails because he insecure, awkward, and is almost like a teenage boy trapped in a grown mans body. He mumbles, is easily flustered, and does not know how to speak to women...not exactly the best role model in the category of confidence. This failure to understand the importance of a confident male figure renders him useless in multiple situations. If Giles did not know about Vampires, the Harvest, or other mythical creatures, he would be the same, naive, helpless child that is Buffy's mother.